after reading a friend of mine's blog, suddenly i realise sometimes,things may nt seem to be wat u see thru ur eye. u may think that tis person is de most funniest and most empty headed fren u hav,but den it may nt seems to be the truth. wat we interprete thru our eyes are no longer the only truth anymore. i've been practising it often by nt judging people with one second look as well as nt judging people by the content that came out of his /her mouth. but today was quite a sad thing for me to learn that from a friend. i often tot that he is de silliest friend i have ,but it may seems that it is actually de opposite of all my believes.
we went out yum char at night and was as happy as i tot everything is, coz we no longer have projects to rush for. halfway thru , something happened, phone calls came in, the guy walkout,den comebc with a nt so alright face and den we were all hush back with reason ,may be to me it seems to be excuses that something happened to his family. at first i tot ok, may b dis time it is reli family matter,but then it doesnt seems dat way when i read the blogs.
and then everthing came out, it was not as we tot it was. haih, and he wasnt as joyful as we tot he was when he laughs out loud, he wasnt as relax as we were as we tot. he wasnt as happy as we saw from his face. it kind of make my heart ache while reading his blog, b coz he is quite close with us and i knw how sad he is. but theres nothing for me to do as he doesnt say it out and its not my part to be involve. anyway. just wants to tell him badly that,u still have a bunch of frens who cares about u , and ur life is nt as dull as u think when u change ur perception as well as
perspective. there is so much more of life other than wat u see now,and u reli dun have to pretend infront of us . jz walk away or go off when u r upset . u dun have to force urself to bring us out when u r upset or to think of excuses to hide ur frustrations because, we dun mind. friends doesnt need ur explaination they understand.
hope that u recover soon which only u urself knw it as we may not see it, bcoz u r alwez hiding ur true emotions. and we'll be there for u when u need someone to talk to ~ cheer up friend~
Friday, May 1, 2009
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